US actress Jennifer Lopez (R) and US actor Ben Affleck attend Amazon’s “This is Me… Now: A Love Story” premiere at the Dolby theatre in Hollywood, California, February 13, 2024. (Photo by Robyn BECK / AFP) (Photo by ROBYN BECK/AFP via Getty Images)

Jennifer Garner and her boyfriend, John Miller, seemed to settle into a good rhythm in their relationship over the last few years. They’ve been spotted working out together and enjoying date nights in their low-key romance,

Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck spent Christmas together with their three children, Violet, 19, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12, according to an inside source. "It's all for the kids," the source tells PEOPLE.

Despite reports that Jennifer Lopez wanted Ben Affleck to spend the holidays with she and her children, the Academy Award winning actor and director spent

Jen grew up surrounded by her family for the holidays, and she wants the same for her kids," a source explained.

Ben Affleck ended the year by spending time with his ex-wife Jennifer Garner and their three children — Violet, 19, Fin (née Seraphina), 15, and Samuel, 12, according to a source. "Jen and Ben were all together for Christmas.